Who will be responsible for death??

In modern society, many people suffer from loneliness. People are in the middle of others but they feel lonely. They can't be satisfied with their normal life and they decided suicide. I think this death is for society.

Because society mood makes people tough and unfriendly. Humankind is animal of relations. So they priority the relationship highly. However busy society which didn't understand the rest and concession makes people lonely. Even though they don't want the competiton but they have to compete to others over and over. They society system don't stop the competition.


Also society can affect the people. People want to behave like normal people. But the notion of normal people didn't fix yet. Therefore we have to copy others what they are doing. What most people or most influenced people does become the standard. So we are not free to society. When people said "I am free. I behave with myself", but he or she was already influenced unconciously. Society can rule the people.

So we have to think about what we can do to protech the loneliness death and suicide oneself. Who will be responsible for death?? If we can find the answer, but we already lose our friend or family. We have to notice who feel pain and heal their hurt together.

Who will be responsible for death??

        Many people are interested in Indivisualism and Egoism thesedays. They don't care about others and something didn't related with them. This situation makes "Loneliness Death". Loneliness death means people died without family or friend and leave the body after few days. Who will be responsible for loneliness death?? Is it related to somebody or society?? Someone's unconcern or mood of society who make this situation????

     I think the answer is people's unconcern. Society be made of people. People is the master of sociery. Therefore people can change society mood. Friendly "Hello" can prevent somebody's suicide or loneliness death. Little attention makes world more happy and warm. People need concern to live vital. Just short word like "How was today?" can change the world. We need each other. We can't live alone. Therefore we need more concern about each other. Then we can live more happy with our neighbors.     

Big problem : KAIST

I saw news article about the KAIST student' suicide 4 times in a row. I was wondering why they decided to suicide. It was very surprising new not just for me, maybe for everyone.

Thesedays, KAIST had many tough systems for students. For example, their school expenses were different for each students. The tuition belonged to their GPA exactly. Like someone who did well during last semester, his tuition is little, but someone whose GPA was not good, he had to take more tuition. Also KAIST didn't allow the second chance. If they got bad grade, it will remain forever. There is no second chance for students.

These kinds of strong competition systems were making students not friends just enemies. They felt lonely with lots of concerns and competitons. Now there are many voices to change school system in KAIST. I hope they solve the problem well and become warm-hearted Hall of the Truth.   

Winter Sea : Oido

Oido is far from Seoul about 1 hour and 30 minutes. We can go there easily by subway. It is the last stop of blue line, line #4. I went Oido in 2009 winter with my best friend, Soojung. We call each other "Soul mate" because there are many similar things between us. Also I called her "Twins", I feel like her family.

It was holiday season, so it was very crowded. Many people went Oido to enjoy the winter sea. However Oido was not exactly same what I had been imagined about the seas. In my mind, seas include huge shiny sandy beach where I can walk without shoes, also clean, blue sea like emerald color. Also I can't see the horizon line and the color is definitly blue blue too much clean I even can't enter. And there must be endless sea waves, big and small, small to big. However Oido is the westem sea, so it had muddy tidal flat except the glossy sandy beach. Also there was large low tide and high tide, so I couldn't enter the sea. It was blocked with the warning signals.

Instead of entering the sea, we entered to the tidal flat. It was a little bit slippery because the snow was coverd with. In the tidal flat, we found the shells to make the letter. There were lots of shells big and small, white, polished and shattered. We wrote the new year's resolution backward of the shells. Also we wrote the goal to using the shells on the ground.

 

The landmark of Oido was light house. The light house is located in the middle of the Oido like welcoming us. Its color was scarlet. When I went top of the light house I felt freedom. The strong winter winds came to us but I felt lively and free then cold and bitter. There were many doddlers on the wall of the light house. We also wanted to write something like "Jeahee and Soojung came here in 2009" but we didn't have any pen.

 

In the winter sea, I felt like mother's voice and warm hugs. At that time, I had many troubles about my future, but when I was watching the sea I experienced they said "You can do it. Cheer up! You are not a loser.

" In the way back, I made the new year's plan. I was needed the self-confidence, and the sea gave me the present I could make it.